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greyvss Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2014
i'm glad i read this, because i honestly have been writing two female characters in love with each other and was kinda...well...dancing around the whole sex thing, because i was honestly not sure what to do :P
but, now i've got something to work with :)
and plus, i'd say the advice in the bottom half applies to more than just homosexual relationships, but can also apply to heterosexual one's too. :3
so i'll happily keep the information in mind :)
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greyvss Featured By Owner Jan 20, 2014
for later use.
forgot to finish me own sentence XD XP
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Demonizer68 Featured By Owner Dec 10, 2013
And now I'm educated, although I'll still throw my willing girls in to lesbian situations though.
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Miss-Ag Featured By Owner Aug 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Great job and clearing up these misconceptions. I would like to say that most misconceptions are bred through ignorance but i find so often its mainly intolerance... Ridiculous notions the vagina can evoke in certain people. SMH lol
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AccioPumpkin Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Lol its sad that we actually have to write out a manual like people cant just use their imagination and figure it out XD
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MrT-P Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2013  Student Photographer
Being reminded that this stuff even has to be explained is a source of endless confusion and depression for me.

...Especially considering all of this fully applies to heterosexual sex.


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MenollySagittaria Featured By Owner Mar 20, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
This makes me want to do an Asexuals 101.
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kozispoon Featured By Owner May 20, 2013  Student General Artist
I'd definitely give that a read- you totally should!
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Knightster Featured By Owner Mar 7, 2013
Brilliant series so far! It's refreshing to see people talk about their sexuality so openly, even in the comic form.

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Kazenra Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2013  Student General Artist
I admit I saw this lesson first and will swiftly move to look at the first two :XD:

I have to say this made me laugh, but I also appreciate there being something like this on here to dispel certain misconceptions. I especially appreciate the rather unrelated comments underneath as to why a woman who is a lesbian still uses a dildo or whatever.
I got into this discussion with my boyfriend when he said a mate of his made this exact comment "im gona be a lesbian, cos i dick repules me!" <uses fake penis>... oh the irony :/"

It pisses me off and you worded your reply so perfectly, I feel I can give a reasonable reply to something like this the next time some idiot says it, as I couldn't think of one the last time and it bugs me even 2 weeks later :/
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Raimoundo Featured By Owner Jan 6, 2013
why did i read this ?
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DimKa-Minsk Featured By Owner Feb 15, 2013  Hobbyist Interface Designer
+1 )))))))))
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racoongod Featured By Owner Dec 25, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't get the question that how do lesbians know when the sex is over... Do they mean that women don't have ejaculations or? How do you define the end of the sex then? I find this question a bit nonsense :D
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S-SPhotography Featured By Owner May 25, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I think the stupid people who ask this question are forgetting that women do have orgasms.. They're probably the men who can't actually make a woman climax.
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racoongod Featured By Owner May 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
yeah, makes more sense, but these people must live in a cave if they think like that. and it makes me sad that there are actually people thinking the only point in sex is that the man comes and the woman is just thereto help him. seems I've lived in a wonderland to think that women's sexual needs are accepted and not only the lucky ones get to find pleasure. (I'm speaking of mainly the western culture since I don't really know how these things work elsewhere. and i hope you get the point what I'm trying to express cause it's morning here, the time when I forget how to english :D)
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S-SPhotography Featured By Owner May 26, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Well if you look at statistics about women and orgasms...
You will see that it's really everyone else living in the cave..
XD
Yes I understand your point perfectly and I agree with you. My partner used to date men before she accepted that she loved women, and sex back then for her was just that, for the man to come. She describes it as "Just laying there and waiting for it to be finished." She is much much more liberated and happy now.
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racoongod Featured By Owner May 27, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I must be really lucky that the guy I'm dating really pays attention to me, you know. I wish every male-female couple could say the same.
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S-SPhotography Featured By Owner May 31, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
The world would be a whole lot better if more people realized the needs of others, in every aspect.
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racoongod Featured By Owner Jun 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
definitely. until that time comes we have to manage like this.
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Ask-Tith Featured By Owner Dec 12, 2012
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

Im sorry............. XD
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Anna-Kitsune Featured By Owner Nov 25, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
So happy to see this lesson up now! Fantastic Series it really has helped me become less awkward when trying to formulate sentences to my new lesbian friends (I have only really met gay men, or bi individuals who have ended up as friends) who don't know that I am just really socially awkward and trying my hardest not to offend them. You have saved me so many "Tell me if this is out of bounds I am just extremely confused/under educated about..." Moments. Bless you!
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mdude009 Featured By Owner Nov 15, 2012
You're telling people actually don't know that lesbians can have sex, apparently they've never been to a porn site... Or I've to too many.
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ThestralWizard Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
well, porn is a really bad way to get sex education xD Lesbians do have sex, but they do it in a way much different than the one portrayed by the pornographic industry.
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mdude009 Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2012
I do know lesbian porn is overdone as hell (all porn is for that matter), I'm simply saying that the premise of lesbians not being physically capable of having sex is easily disproven by about ten seconds of porn, as far from the truth as it may be...

Also, the hell you talking about "porn is a really bad way to get sex education," thanks to porn I knew more then my 4th grade sex ed teacher and every sex ed teacher after her (my knowledge never stopped growing).
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ThestralWizard Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I am not trying to offend you, I am agreeing. About porn being a bad way to get sex ed, I am trying to say porn dismisses women, and shows stuff women don't like to do - if someone try to do those stuff (and only those stuff) to a woman and expect her to come or feel pleasure, it will be a huge fail. Women need appropriate stimuli and not just have a dick (or anything) stuck into them xD
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mdude009 Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2012
"(or anything)" yup, dick is the least of their worries, no argument there.
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ThestralWizard Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
The point. You missed it.
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mdude009 Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2012
We don't need points where we're going!
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StarbuckCloudhoof Featured By Owner Dec 4, 2012  Professional General Artist
This thread is hilarious. xD
I'm 99.9% sure mdude is just trolling (megusta afterall) but that last comment does a good job of running along with missing the point xD

Well, I hope he's kidding being sarcastic about missing the point O_o xD
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lost-hearted-lover Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
XD awesome
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MatthewMatters Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Professional General Artist
"A woman's body is made to receive pleasure in many different ways. To understand lesbian sex, you must only understand how to pleasure a woman."

Gold. Pure gold. :iconlaughingplz:
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AlexPandaJoker Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
Great now i understand how it goes
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JarrettOnions Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
"im gona be a lesbian, cos i dick repules me!" <uses fake penis>... oh the irony :/
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Tiber5z Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2012
I chuckled at that, but you made it sound like being gay is your choice. It's not. ^-^
Didn't mean to sound bitchy, and sorry in advance if I did. C:
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JarrettOnions Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012  Student Digital Artist
nope it didnt, and i have no problem with homosexuals
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Tiber5z Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2012
Alright, thanks for clearing that up for me. ^u^
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FindChaos Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Professional General Artist
Hi there!

That may be the case for some lesbians - that penises aren't attractive to them - but usually it's the male gender as a whole or perhaps they simply found attraction in a woman moreso than any other person. To suggest being a lesbian equals repulsion to phalli is an extremely narrow view of lesbians in general. Also, the sex toys themselves are more often than not shaped in very unrealistic ways (as you may notice, and I didn't even illustrate some of the more interesting ones) because a woman is still designed to receive some pleasure inside her vagina. She doesn't necessarily need a 'real' penis or even anything remotely shaped like one to stimulate those areas.

Still, some lesbians never use phallic toys, like I mentioned, because they don't like vaginal penetration in general - for personal or even medical reasons. That doesn't make the ones who do enjoy penetration any less lesbian. If you define someone's sexuality simply by what they receive pleasure from that leads to a lot of grey areas for a lot of people who have experimented with toys, oral, etc. Does the married man who learns he likes his wife to stimulate his prostate during sex make him suddenly less heterosexual, even though he's committed and completely in love with his wife only? If they got a divorce and he still was attracted to women, does that tiny detail of his sex life - enacted solely by women - mean he's actually homosexual? I could argue the same for fellatio on men - just because they aren't using the vagina, does that make heterosexual men who mainly receive fellatio ambiguous since both men and women have mouths? It's a little hard to distinguish if someone is gay, straight, or somewhere in between when all you're relating it to is their sex practices and not taking the gender of their partners into account at all.
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JarrettOnions Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
yeah sorry you misunderstood me. i was trying to keep the comment short. i understand what you are saying. i undersand everyone has their own sexual preferences and i have no problem with anything anyone likes, hertro or homo or anything in between. (except overly gay guys who go out of thier way to act disgusting and crude at every opurtunity to "prove" they are proud of their sexuallity because i think its increadibly immature and only portrays insecurity) anyway! i wasnt meaning everyone, ofcourse people are different. that was just something that has always amused me. for the small group that i described.
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FindChaos Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Professional General Artist
I think in that case you are describing a fictional conundrum, because of all the lesbians I have ever heard of or known that have found phalluses repulsive simply by respect of being phallic and not who they are attached to, they tend to avoid penetrative sex with phallic objects.

Simply put, Dildos Do Not Equal Penises, and are not 'male'. Most dildos are shaped unrealistically or shaped like the inside of a woman's vagina. And I don't see how it was a misunderstanding when you used so few words to make a sweeping statement.

As far as your problem with 'overly gay guys', you can find "crude and disgusting" behavior with heterosexual males more often, especially targeted towards women, to prove their 'straightness' and masculinity. I think there is an underlying discomfort to the homosexuals in particular that you may want to reflect upon. It's sort of contradictory to make a statement of 'I have no problem with anything' and then follow it up a clause, especially one that simply reads as 'when they are making themselves noticeably gay'. I don't have a problem with anyone's sexuality, even when they're making themselves noticeably heterosexual. I also don't have a problem with anyone feeling however they do, even if it's disapproving of a certain group of people. However, if you're going to comment on a homosexual topic on education, expect a certain tone of reply when you make sweeping generalizations that aren't educational or constructive.
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hunterofsouls13 Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Student Filmographer
oh gawd what did i just click on. oh well atleast it was educational
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ChrissietheArchen Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
agreed
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chaoswolf1982 Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
one more reason I wish I could be a lesbian... they get all the interesting toys.
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THEGREATAIKO-SAMA Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist
Well, you can stick them in an orifice technically.
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chaoswolf1982 Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Lesbians have better orifices, too.
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jinxkatty7 Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
how did I get here?!? :fear:
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AlexPandaJoker Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
You were sucked in the curiosity hole
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jinxkatty7 Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
hole.... der hurr. Maybe it was my immaturity.
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AlexPandaJoker Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
Maybe that
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